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Thankfulness: A Year-Round Practice, Not Just a Holiday Tradition

category: christian living category: marriage Nov 22, 2024
 

Let's get real for a moment. Thanksgiving isn't just about stuffing yourself with pumpkin pie and wearing stretchy pants (though those are definitely perks). It's about something much deeper: cultivating a genuine spirit of gratitude that can transform your life.

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Why Thankfulness Matters (All Year Long)

My husband and I were chatting about this recently, and we realized something important: being thankful isn't a one-week-a-year gig. It's a lifestyle—a powerful practice that can literally change your perspective and open up new opportunities.

Here's the deal: when you're thankful, you're basically giving your life a positive power boost. Think of gratitude like spiritual WD-40—it helps things move more smoothly and reduces friction.

The Faith Perspective

From a spiritual standpoint, thankfulness isn't just nice—it's essential. When you're grateful, you're creating space for positive things to happen. It's like sending out an invitation to blessings. 

The Bible tells us that thanksgiving is key to combating anxiety. Philippians 4:6-7 says: "Be anxious for nothing, but in everything by prayer and supplication, WITH THANKSGIVING, let your requests be made known to God; and the peace of God, which surpasses all understanding, will guard your hearts and minds through Christ Jesus."

 

In Tough Times

Let's be real—being thankful isn't always easy. When life throws curveballs, gratitude can feel impossible. But that's exactly when it's most powerful. That's right, like we said, there is power in thanking and praising God. Remember the story of Paul and Silas? Beaten and thrown in jail, yet they were singing and praising. And what happened? Their chains literally fell off! That's the power of a thankful heart.

The key is focusing on what you can be thankful for. Not "I'm thankful I got cancer," but "I'm thankful for the support system around me" or "I'm thankful for the strength I'm finding through this." Thank God for working on your behalf behind the scenes. 

God never causes the bad things in your life to happen, but He is there to help you through. He can turn any bad situation around (Romans 8:28) 

Practical Ways to Practice Thankfulness

So how do you actually do this? Here are some ideas:

  • Start small: Thank your spouse for everyday things (taking out the trash, making coffee)
  • Keep a gratitude journal
  • Verbally acknowledge people's efforts
  • Write genuine reviews for businesses or creators you appreciate
  • Practice saying "thank you" more intentionally
  • Begin your prayers by thanking God for the blessings in your life. 

 

Beyond "Thank You"

Thankfulness comes in many forms:

  • Acknowledgment
  • Recognition
  • Testimonials
  • Honoring someone
  • Giving credit where it's due

A Challenge for You

This week, challenge yourself to go beyond the typical Thanksgiving gratitude. Find three unexpected moments to express genuine thankfulness. Text a friend who's been supportive, write a heartfelt note, or simply pause and appreciate something small.

Remember, gratitude isn't about ignoring life's challenges. It's about choosing to see the good alongside the difficult.

Happy thanking! 🍂🙏

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